EXCLUSIVE: ‘Most men just want to sleep with me – they ghost me when I bring up wanting kids’: Jessica Alves, 39, reveals ‘disappointing’ experience of dating as a single trans woman and claims people are ‘scared’ of her look
Jessica Alves has opened up on her ‘disappointing’ experience of dating as single trans woman.
The Brazilian bombshell, 39, exclusively spoke to MailOnline about her quest to find love, sharing her heartache that men only want to have a sexual experience with her and are ‘put off’ when she mentions her desire to start a family.
As well as featuring in a stunning new photoshoot, Jessica also claimed that people are scared and ‘intimidated’ by her new look, insisting that people will realise she’s a ‘kind soul’ once they get to know her.
Dating life: Jessica Alves has opened up on her ‘disappointing’ experience of dating as single trans woman
The star has spent nearly £1million on almost 80 surgeries to transform herself, undergoing sex reassignment surgery in 2021 after coming out as transgender in 2020.
But despite putting every effort into transforming her look, Jessica shared that she still finds it difficult to make a proper connection with men.
She explained: ‘I think that I tend to intimidate people due to my looks. But once they get to know me they see that I am a nice, kind soul.
‘I get a lot of attention from men when I am out in public, on my Instagram and on my OnlyFans, but I am still a single woman.’
Open: The Brazilian bombshell, 39, exclusively spoke to MailOnline about her quest to find love, sharing her heartache that men only want to have a sexual experience with her and are ‘put off’ when she mentions her desire to start a family
And while she feels that she’s ‘completed’ her transformation into the woman she’s always wanted to be, Jessica once again shared her yearning for the two things missing in her life – a husband and children.
‘It has been hard to find the Prince Charming who will eventually marry me and build a family with me. Most men that I have met are just after fun and when I talk about having kids etc they get put off.’
Earlier this month, the TV personality was pictured with a love interest in Rome, while she previously enjoyed a whirlwind fling in Thailand with another love interest, Jamie Budgen. But at present, she remains single.
Jessica added of her life: ‘I’m at the age of 39 and have completed my transition now – I am a fully female. Even my birth certificate has been updated matching my name Jessica and my gender female allowing me to get married in the Christian Catholic church – and that is my dream to have a princess wedding.
Pose: As well as featuring in a stunning new photoshoot, Jessica also claimed that people are scared and ‘intimated’ by her new look, insisting that people will realise she’s a ‘kind soul’ once they get to know her
Transformation: The star has spent nearly £1million on almost 80 surgeries to transform herself, undergoing sex reassignment surgery in 2021 after coming out as transgender in 2020
Difficult: But despite putting every effort into transforming her look, Jessica shared that she still finds it difficult to make a proper connection with men
‘I feel very blessed and fortunate to be who I was meant to be at birth. I love every single inch of my self and my being and I have being focusing on my personal life and discovering myself day by day as a woman.’
In her photoshoot, Jessica looked stunning in a strapless, baby pink gown adorned with glittering rhinestones, with the plunging outfit perfectly highlighting her hourglass figure.
She added a sparkling statement necklace and embellished heels to her look, with the star completing ensemble with glam make-up and poker straight platinum locks.
And Jessica went on to reveal her confidence in her look, before calling on the need to ‘normalise’ having have more trans people on screens.
Issue: ‘It has been hard to find the Prince Charming who will eventually marry me and build a family with me. Most men that I have met are just after fun and when I talk about having kids etc they get put off’
Wedding dream: ‘My birth certificate has been updated matching my name Jessica and my gender female allowing me to get married in the Christian Catholic church – and that is my dream to have a princess wedding’
The ‘full time model’ and FashionNova brand ambassador said: ‘I feel ready to go back full time on television like I used to in the past, I feel beautiful and confident and I have a lot to share and offer to the world.
‘We need to see more trans people on TV and in movies to normalise it and to show to the rest of the world that it is OK to be trans and that we are like any other women.’ .
Reflecting on her difficult past pre-transition, she said: ‘In 2018 I was suffering from depression in secret taking female hormones without medical support and mixing with alcohol which made my mental state very unstable.
‘In the same year I was on Big Brother in Italy and the UK. I would love have a second chance to go back on the show and showcase to the world the new me!’
Proud: ‘I feel very blessed and fortunate to be who I was meant to be at birth. I love every single inch of my self and my being and I have being focusing on my personal life and discovering myself day by day as a woman’
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