A WOMAN has revealed how she had mind-blowing sex with her younger lover on the kitchen counter, only for him to dump her over her age.
Katreen Hardt, 53, a journalist from London, who now lives in Germany, has been in an on-off relationship with a personal trainer two decades her junior for six years.
According to the writer, Jake*, 33, can't accept dating an older woman – but also can't keep his hands off her for long.
In the past, Katreen has even forked out £1,000 for plane tickets for a romantic trip to Australia, only to have her lover call it off at the last minute.
In an exclusive piece for Fabulous, she reveals all about the tumultuous fling…
When I read about Ulrika Jonsson dating a toyboy 20 years her junior, I thought to myself: been there, done that. At 53, I'm the same age as Ulrika, who recently described her fling as “enormously exciting for an old bird” in a chat with Fabulous.
Like the TV presenter, I have been in an on-off relationship with toyboy Jake*, 33, a personal trainer, for six years. And it's not necessarily something I'd recommend. While on the one hand I've experienced the most exciting sex of my life, on the other he's driven me to tears more than once with the fickleness of youth.
Jake and I met in 2015 through a mutual friend. I found him ridiculously hot with his blue eyes and strawberry blond curls. He was funny, too, captivating me from the onset with his toothy smile.
We quickly discovered we shared an interest in fitness. He offered to train me for free for a Tough Mudder challenge and from the first session, the sexual tension was undeniable.
It was summer and the heat had us dripping with sweat, so I'd show up for our runs in short shorts. His furtive glances at my flat stomach, slender hips, and mile-long legs signalled he was, like me, having fantasies about the two of us in bed.
Three weeks later, I was delighted when Jake asked me out on a date. But the night before we were to meet for dinner at a cheap Italian restaurant, he cancelled. I was crushed. When I asked him the reason, he admitted he found me attractive, but said he didn't want things between us to get complicated.
It wouldn't be the last time Jake would have a change of heart, leaving me miserable.
One evening late summer I invited him over to watch a film. Halfway through, he leaned in to set his glass of wine on the bookshelf beside me. I teased him about getting too close and suddenly he kissed me softly on the lips.
I have been in an on-off relationship with toyboy Jake*, 33, a personal trainer, for six years. While on I've experienced the most exciting sex of my life, on the other he's driven me to tears more than once with the fickleness of youth
Without hesitating, I kissed him back, and before I knew it he'd whipped off his T-shirt, exposing muscular biceps and well-defined abs. Within minutes, we were all over each other, having mind-blowing sex on the mattress in my loft. When I orgasmed, I felt my entire body quiver.
It wasn't long before Jake was coming over regularly after our sessions.We'd start with the pretence of cooking vegan meals and before we’d even finished chopping the onions we'd be having outrageous sex on my kitchen counter. Or we’d be at it in the shower. Or on the floor in my bedroom. We couldn't keep our hands off each other.
But that autumn Jake abruptly ended things, saying he couldn't get his head around the fact I was 20 years older than him. Instead of enjoying each other's company, he was too caught up in thinking about where this relationship was going.
I was devastated, as we had such fun together. He always had me in stitches with his goofy sense of humour. I never considered Jake to be serious boyfriend material, but I did love spending time with him.
Six weeks passed before he reached out, asking if we could go for coffee. Hours later he and I were back at mine, ripping off each other's clothes and having passionate sex in my hallway.
We continued to see each other for three months until he ended things – again. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't hurt.
When Jake suggested we try being friends with benefits in the spring, I was hesitant. But I couldn’t resist my attraction to him and right away we were back in bed together, having one toe-curling-earth-shaking orgasm after the other.
Every few months, he'd get caught up on the age gap and dump me, only for us to start up again weeks later, as we couldn't stay away from each other. I’m glad Ulrika says she’s looking for “good food and sex, not marriage”, as dating a younger man is a real whirlwind.
In 2016, Jake moved to Australia. Despite the long distance, we kept in touch and even planned a road trip from Sydney to Cairns. After I'd spent nearly £1,000 on a flight, he wrote to tell me he'd fallen in love with another woman and thought it no longer appropriate for the two of us to go on our trip.
I wept for days. Finally, I let him know how selfish I thought his actions were and wrote that I'd put up with his bulls*** for way too long. I was tired of being disappointed.
We'd start with the pretence of cooking vegan meals and before we’d even finished chopping the onions we'd be having outrageous sex on my kitchen counter. Then Jake abruptly ended things, saying he couldn't get his head around the fact I was 20 years older than him
For two years, I didn’t hear from Jake. Then in January last year, he sent me a voice note apologising for how he'd treated me. Soon we were writing to each other, talking and rekindling what it was we once had.
Just last week, after I got back from a late night run, I took a shower and was sitting on the sofa in a black negligee, listening to music Jake and I used to listen to, reminiscing about the sex we'd had. I decided to write to him. Within minutes, we were sexting. Then Jake suggested we Zoom.
Despite not physically touching, there was still that intense connection. While we both got off in front of the other on screen, we continued to look deeply into each other's eye (like we'd always done) until we climaxed.
Over the years, I've learnt to accept Jake for who he is. In my heart I know we will never be a couple, but there will always be a special bond between us that keeps us coming back. We’ve both admitted we’ve never had such intense sex with anyone else – and probably never will.
Katreen Hardt is currently working on her debut memoir, In Love with Younger Men.
*Jake's name has been changed.
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