Lisa Appleton is back solving your hanky-panky horrors this week, and has some more strong pearls of wisdom.
Last week, she advised a man who was sleeping with his sister-in-law to make a decision pronto, as it wasn't fair on any of the parties involved.
This week, Lisa is helping a woman who is leading a double life…
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'Do I tell my boyfriend about my sex slave?'
I’ve recently rekindled a relationship with an ex boyfriend. Who I dated for 6 years but we split up three years ago.
We called things off as he was unfaithful to me, which really hurt – although, if I’m being completely honest, I also had a part to play in the decline of our relationship, as I just became a bit disinterested and felt like I wanted to experiment etc.
Following our split, I attended a few sex parties-which was something I always wanted to try, and I loved it. I was able to live out my dominatrix fantasy.
During that time I met a gentleman – I’ll call him Dave – who became my sex slave.
We meet up twice a week at his dungeon and I whip him/chain him, you name it. This time around with my ex I really feel like it’s for keeps and can see it going the distance as we’ve been grown up a lot.
And I’ve fallen completely back in love with him. But I really don’t want to give up my sex slave as I’m scared I’ll get bored again with my boyfriend.
And I feel like I get the love and commitment from my partner while still getting the excitement and thrills from my sex slave.
Can I keep on having the best of both worlds? Or do I need to tell my boyfriend/give one of them up?
So, your ex-boyfriend hurt you, you had a part to play in it, and you've both grown up a lot. Time goes by, you've both started seeing each other again and you've fallen back in love.
But you're seeming to still enjoy seeing your sex slave and whipping him and tying him up and things like that in the dungeon as a dominatrix.
First of all, if you've fallen back in love with your boyfriend, you've both grown up a bit and forgiven each other, you were probably a bit more immature at the time and as you said, you had a part to play in it and time goes by and sometimes life can get lonely and sometimes the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
However, falling back in love though are strong strong words. As that's what we're here for and put on this planet to do, is love.
Love who we're with, what we do and everything about it. And if you're falling in love again, is it really worth dominating this sex slave and potentially jeopardising that? So you can't really have your cake and eat it and you can't have the best of both worlds.
Because at some point, it's going to come out and there's going to be a complication and you'll end up losing someone you love again and you might have a part to play in it again too.
I would advise you, if you've fallen back in love while not getting any younger, you don't want to be on your own and lonely. Keep hold of it.
And I'm sure he'll go in your dungeon sometimes as he'll want to support you there – as for Dave, I would say, it's time to say goodbye.
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